Wednesday, August 19, 2009

Why is this not easier

So doing this blog is supposed to be a part of my partners and I bid to become more connected to other people and to also find a way to expand our circles. I watch and read Randilin do it all the time but I am resistant. I have these life changes and I barely writed about them in my paper journal. Everything that happens I keep bottled with in me. I know I should not do this but I do.

How Am I going to change this? I don't know where to start or if in some ways if I want to or if it is just Randilin's 'encouragement'. I guess my next step is to figure that out.

8 comments:

Beth said...

Try little steps. Do one little thing a day and sometime later add another. Its a good way to build up.

Celestite said...

Do you want to express what you feel about different things, especially spiritual things? Have you tried Pagan Prompts? http://paganprompts.blogspot.com/
Sometimes a topic helps get the desire to write moving.
To get connected, be sure to follow the blog of anyone who follows you. This will get your blog seen by more people. You won't connect with everyone, but you will with some.

WyzWmn© said...

when I first started blogging I was so concerned around the idea that people would read what I wrote and not approve of it or me and my decisions that I kept the blog locked down/private for a year...

the last two months prior to "going public" I made a personal commitment to saying something in the blog every day - even if it was just "need more coffee" like a FB status...

by the end of the 2nd month I was blowing out page after page and got much more confident about what I was doing....I then got to the point where I wanted others to read what I was saying...I wanted to share....

I don't even keep a paper journal anymore...the act of writing longhand is too far from the instant gratification I get when I type words here....

but that's me....maybe you don't want or need instant gratification...but you likely do need to just record things you are grateful for a while to make yourself feel better about writing...

Æshe said...

I have a hard time blogging alot too, but I look forward to reading yours, just don't worry about what you write.

Lizz said...

It can be difficult sharing innermost thoughts and personal experiences at first. My best advice would be to write like you're having a conversation with a friend. It helps keep both your subject matter and tone in check. After all, you wouldn't tell most of your friends things that would be incriminating or embarrassing. It's best to just be fun with it. Share a picture and a few sentences. That's a good start.

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Momz Blotter said...

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